Dr. Stanley Goldstein - Author and Psychologist

A Psychologist's Thoughts on Clinical Practice, Behavior, and Life

Online Moderation Can Lead to Problems

December 1, 2018

Tags: online, internet, listserv

For years I contributed to a professional psychology site, eventually leaving it because it provided me with unneeded angst.

(1) The moderator threatened to remove me from the website because I disagreed with the clinical position of another psychologist and "hurt her feelings." My sense was that if her feelings were hurt (she later told (more…)

The Need for Publicized Psychological Autopsies in Mass Killings

November 9, 2018

Tags: Psychological, mass killing

Some years ago there was a particularly egregious incident in my area when a retired police officer killed himself and his children. Soon after, I asked a police official whether the results of the investigation would be made public. I was assured that it would be but never saw it.
Serving more than mere interest, (more…)

How I Became an Author and the Two Crucial Lessons That I Learned

October 22, 2018

Tags: writing, publishing

Years ago, after leaving a stressful job which I loved, I was at loose ends. Not knowing what to do next, I first decided to write a scholarly paper but then a book.
Now, I knew nothing about writing a book. The only thing that I had written was a dissertation which likely few (more…)

Adding to the Terror of PTSD Symptoms

October 12, 2018

Tags: PTSD

While nightmares and flashbacks are frightening enough, another symptom is worse: agitated (anxiety-laden) depression which can seem never-ending. This feeling of being alone and helpless arouses from infancy, a period when the child is completely dependent on their parents for survival. Gradually, the child's mind creates an image of an all-nurturing parent who, when (more…)

On The Kavanaugh Hearing, Memory, and Adolescent Development

September 30, 2018

Tags: Kavanaugh, memory, sexual abuse, adolescence

While concerned with some political issues, I try to ignore the froth. I have several times recommended (without effect) that it would benefit psychologists if our professional organization moved its headquarters to a less insular setting than Washington, D.C. Despite this, I was captivated by the Kavanaugh Hearing for it raised questions in (more…)

Explaining the Fear of Flying and other Phobias

September 22, 2018

Tags: fear, phobia

Though varying in type and severity, fears (phobias) are a universal human condition. They are how the unconscious mind enables a too-stressed person to function. Their stress is caused by a psychological conflict or feared insight which disturbs the person's ability to function normally on the job or at home or in school.

For (more…)

Why Do Patients Lie to Their Therapist?

September 17, 2018

Tags: psychotherapy, lying

A prevalent belief is that a patient always tells the truth to their therapist but this isn't true.
1. A woman was referred by her internist to a psychologist for "counseling," the unspoken motive being that she was a continuing, troublesome presence in the doctor's office. That the patient was seriously ill was obvious (more…)

Six Basic Rules for the Newbie Public Speaker and TV Guest

September 8, 2018

Tags: public speaking, tv

1. Over-practice your talking points. This will reduce the likelihood of you being tripped up when facing an unexpected question. If not on-the-air (before a live audience) and you're unsure what to respond, turn the question back to the audience by asking, "What do you think?"
2. Don't have long pauses before answering a question. Nothing (more…)

When Is A "Sexual Assault" a "Sexual Assault"?

August 27, 2018

Tags: sexual assault

Like all who read the news, I was shocked to learn that a former head of the Center for Disease Control, an eminent public servant, had been charged with sexual assault in New York City. What equally surprised me were the details as reported.

The doctor had allegedly squeezed the buttocks of a woman (more…)

What Made a Brilliant, Decorated Soldier Go Off the Rails?

August 26, 2018

Tags: Winner, NSA, psychological testing

I can't help wondering what made Reality Winner, the NSA leaker & former highly decorated soldier and brilliant linguist, go off the rails. Projective psychological testing (Rorschach, Thematic Apperception Test) might give the answer but I doubt this was done. Being a loner and quirky (as described in the news article) doesn't add up to (more…)